We have a lot of traditions around the holidays. The santa curtain is the first Christmas decoration to go up every year after Thanksgiving dinner once the dishes are done. Decorating is done the day after Thanksgiving. I get a nutcracker every year to add to my collection.
The nutcracker tradition started when I was 16 and I was given my first nutcracker by my parents for Christmas. The tradition has continued nearly every year since, with my parents and later Hubby and occasionally someone else giving me a nutcracker at Christmas. Needless to say, over 30 years later and my collection is LARGE.
A few years ago, Hubby decided that he needed to give it to me either when we were decorating for the holidays or, as happens WAY too often, as soon as it arrives, no matter when throughout the year he bought it. It is still always a surprise as I just never now when he is going to present me with that year’s nutcracker.
Hubby is also the one that morphed this tradition into a theme for the year. The nutcracker always reflects something significant from the year. Like the year he gave me a mountain climber/hiker one when we took a trip to Colorado or a Charles Dickens one the year I published my book. It is as much fun getting the nutcracker itself as it is seeing what theme he is going to pick for the year. It makes it fun when it is time to bring them all out for the season to see those themes and reflect on when I got them and why. There are stories for every one and the kids, especially BG, love to talk about them.
I’d decided a while ago when I saw how much BG loved this tradition, that I’d start her on her own tradition of nutcrackers when she turned 16. I’ve been thinking about it for the last couple of years and finally got to start it this year.
As often happens when we are decorating and putting out all the nutcrackers, Hubby slides downstairs and slips the box in next to one of the bins I was unpacking. The kids know he does this and MC saw this and waited for my reaction not knowing that this one wasn’t mine. BG was oblivious.
When I called her over and handed her the box, she was bit confused and asked me if Hubby had gotten me another new one (I already got mine this year). When I said no, this was hers so she could start her own collection… her face!! The utter shock was just over the top. It is hard to really surprise her and she had no idea I was planning this.
Then she absolutely lost it and started bawling her eyes out. I really didn’t expect that. I had expected her to be a little surprised, even excited to get her own nutcracker, but she was just so emotional about it I was floored. I had no idea just how much doing this would mean to her which made this all the more special.
We were both a bit of a blubbery mess for a few minutes. Then I lost my helper as she took off upstairs to make a space in her room to set him up in a place of honor.
Following tradition, hers is somewhat themed in that it matches this year’s pointe costume almost perfectly with the pinks and golds. The fact that it also has a ballerina with it is kind of icing on the perfect cake.
The photo is of her very first nutcracker (on the left) next to my first ever nutcracker (right). While I will still be getting my nutcrackers, I’ve passed the tradition down to my girl this year. I never could have anticipated how much this means to her, so I’m overjoyed that I get to share this with her.
It is moments like this that I love the most. These little points that make up our stories and the pieces that stick with us for a lifetime. Now she is going to have her own physical story reminders she will get to unpack for years to come.
How heartwarming TJ! I love that you’re passing the tradition along to your daughter!
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I still can’t get over how emotional she got over it.
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Because it means something so special to her! I love that she got emotional over it…and someday she’ll pass the nutcracker legacy down to her own daughter!!
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Only if she changes her mind about having kids, which I do see happening as she is pretty firm that she doesn’t want them. It is looking like I may be lucky to get any grandkids at all from ANY of my kids.
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I wasn’t sure I wanted kids. I went back and forth for years and ended up having them happily. So who knows! Don’t lose hope!
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It would make me sad, but I’ll be happy with whatever she decides because that is what will make HER happy. It has taken me a while to get there, but I care more about her happiness.
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I love to hear that! YAY! You’re an awesome Mom!
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Thanks!
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Lovely family story. 🙂
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Awe this is so awesome! Its really touching and I am glad BG loved the new nutcracker!
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That is a fantatsic tradition. I love Christmas. Everyone has something that makes it so special 🙂
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My girl is the one that is really into our traditions the most, so I’m really excited that she thought so much of this one.
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That is great 🙂 my daughter helped decorate the tree today 🎄🎄 its all fun
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We are a little holiday decorating crazy here. The kids each have their own tree to decorate (small ones) and there are 2 big ones that everyone helps with. It is an ALL day project just for the inside!
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That sounds amazing 🙂 It is the best time of the year and everyone comes together
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